Continued from 17th Oct.
- She supports your goals for success
You need a healthy combination of personal goals and goals you pursue together. A strong woman by your side will motivate you and won’t be dependent on you. You don’t need to worry about her and she won’t need your constant validation. She inspires you to be the best version of yourself without changing who you are.
- She laughs at your jokes.
Of course, we all want someone by our side who laughs at our jokes. Having a partner who thinks you’re funny is more important for men than it is for women.
If you have already found a woman you can laugh with make sure to take good care of her.
- She remains calm in fights and calms you down.
Fights are inevitable in all relationships. Never disagreeing is not a sign of a stable relationship. But the important thing is how you deal with the disagreement and how you make up again after.
Relationships will last the longest if the woman can calm herself during a fight and transfer those emotions to the man.
Interestingly, the effect is not the same as the man is the one to calm down first.
- She does not hold grudges.
If you have found a woman who can forgive others, you will have her by your side for a long time. People who can unconditionally forgive others live longer. But perhaps more importantly, forgiveness is the foundation of a healthy relationship.
People are not perfect and neither are you. There will be times when you inadvertently do something that hurts your partner and you will need her to be able to forgive you.
- She puts effort into the relationship.
It’s no secret that sometimes the romance wears off in long-term relationships, but you shouldn’t let it and neither should she. When she puts an effort into you and the relationship, you know that she has invested. It doesn’t even have to be grand gestures. Little things are enough to show you that she cares and is willing to go the extra mile for the happiness of the two of you. If a woman continues to do what she knows attracted you in the first place, it shows that she cares about keeping you around.