- Give her an original compliment.
It’s easy to compliment on the first thing you notice about a girl, like her hair or shirt but a good compliment goes deeper. So this flirting tip requires you to get a little bit more creative. Find something you genuinely like about her, something that isn’t obvious and that shows you’re paying attention. For example, you can tell her that you admire her laugh or the kindness she shows everyone she talks to. She will definitely take notice of your effort.
- Talk about your surroundings.
If you’re not quite sure what to say to a girl, you could simply strike up a conversation about your surroundings. Wherever you are, you’re sure to find something worth discussing. You may observe a person wearing outrageous clothing, somebody acting inappropriately, and so on. Just be sure it’s not one of her friends. Use whatever is happening around you for the conversation, especially if she shows some sort of reaction to it.
- Be on top of current events.
Before you go out. Read up on the news today. And stay informed on the latest celebrity gossip and entertainment news. This is the perfect material for conversations. You’ll want to pay special attention to the latest celebrity bad behaviour, which isn’t difficult since there’s something new every week. This is one of the simplest flirting techniques and there are many ways to use it. For example, if you see someone who’s had a few too many drinks, you can compare them to this week’s drunken celebrity. She’ll laugh and you’ll communicate that you get what’s going on in the world.
- Think of interesting stories.
Be sure to always have a few interesting and unique stories at your disposal. They should be stories that are smooth conversation starters like you wouldn’t believe, but the craziest thing just happened to me. Tell it like it’s really interesting and you just had to share it with someone. If you tell it well she’ll be on the edge of her seat wanting to know more. Whatever you decide to talk about, make sure that it makes you look good. You want to come across as confident and humorous, but not arrogant. These stories will distinguish you from everyone else and will offer her some insight into your character, enough for her to want to know more.
- Act like a gentleman
if you’re planning on actually asking a girl out and not just flirting with you better get your act and manners together. While it’s true that there’s a girl out there for every guy and deviant behaviour is all around. The odds are in your favour if you act like a nice guy instead of a jerk. A gentleman isn’t crass or crude. And he treats a girl with respect. So you have this going for you. While flirting with a girl takes some courage always approach a girl without fear of rejection. And remember that if you are rejected, there are many other potential dates. So embrace the possibility of acceptance. The next time you see a girl you want to talk to try these techniques.