How I Got Married To A Monster At Age 22 – Etinosa Idemudia


Renowned Nollywood actress and producer, Etinosa Idemudia, has opened up about her traumatic marriage experience, labeling her ex-husband as a “monster.”

This revelation comes amidst the recent allegations against Nigerian singer Harrysong, accused of mistreating his wife for giving birth to only female children.

Etinosa, responding to the accusations against Harrysong, took to Instagram to share her own painful journey, recounting the abuse she endured when she tied the knot at the young age of 22.

Urging parents to reconsider pressuring their children into early marriages, she emphasized the need for better upbringing to prevent such abusive situations.

In her Instagram post, Etinosa expressed solidarity with Harrysong’s wife, Alexer, and condemned discrimination against female children.

She challenged outdated beliefs, highlighting accomplished women like Okonjo Iweala and herself as proof of the strength and success of the girl child.

The actress further debunked stereotypes about the importance of male children, asserting her own achievements and questioning the societal mindset that perpetuates such biases.

In her words:

“This is really sad! Hmmmmmm takes me back to when I was 22 and married a monster. Same hell, different devil.

“Dear parents, please let’s reduce the pressure to get married at such a tender age.

“A lot of men run away from 30+ women and marry 20+ old women because they know they can bully them at ease. Parents need to do better in raising their sons.

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“Dammm, I really used to have respect for that agbakpan.

“The part that hurts me the most is when she said he stopped sending money for the children because the woman left.

“Innocent children that are now collateral damage. Children that never asked you to birth them in the first place.

“Only a fool will discriminate against a female child over a male child. In this 2024? Is Okonjo Iweala joke to you? Is Etinosa Idemudia a joke to you? Keep sleeping on the girl child you illiterate.

“On top how many property you get sef wey you dey find male child? Udozuwa Wagbon.

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’’Plot twist, dumbo! You can only get a male child when you put it into her womb. Her eggs don’t determine gender, your cells do. But you wouldn’t know that would you? Because you say school na scam.

“Tell me what a male child represents that I Etinosa Idemudia am not greater than and more.

“Do you know how many properties I own? How many of my father’s properties I control and how much of a pillar I am in my family?

“My sister too !! Big Vikki!!! Yooo African culture and mentality una deyfxck up!!! Don’t freaking undermine the girl child. This is 2024!! Wake up.

“You wey be male child you go beat your chest call yourself pride of your family as your life dey like so?

“Torr I’m happy the lady left that marriage because after killing her self esteem, she would have been next 💔💔💔.”

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